A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-22 07:21 am

The thing is, I do all of those things. I have in theory ADHD proofed my house and it does usually&h

purple-hel:

thebibliosphere:

I said it before, and I’ll say it again: There’s a reason I can’t seem to ever find my keys anymore.

My entire brain is just all the shit I had to learn to keep myself alive, and when someone mentions something offhandedly, my brain spits out a fact like a weird mast cell dysfunction information pez dispenser.

It happened in my Discord when someone mentioned they’d started reacting to their water filter, and I asked what kind they had switched to. Before they’d even finished typing all the ingredients, I was like, “Potassium chloride is a potential histamine liberator.”

It’s just all hard-wired in there.

What’s my birthdate? Fucked if I know anymore (checked my calendar, it’s March 13th). But chances are you can ask me something really complex and I’ll have a medical journal on speed dial for that.

not really your point, I know, but, I purchased a small wire basket that lives just inside the front door where my wallet and car keys LIVE. When I come inside they leave my pockets and go into the basket. When I am going out they leave the basket and go into my pockets. I do not lose my keys or wallet.

(my fucking phone, on the other hand…. But my watch can make my phone make noise. If you can’t make a spot where your keys live, maybe a tracker tile on them, the kind you can make beep?)

The thing is, I do all of those things. I have in theory ADHD proofed my house and it does usually work for me. My brain is just so tired and full of this shit, it doesn’t see the keys anymore, even when they’re in the key basket by the door.

Where are me keys? Usually in front of me 😂.

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it only hurts when i breathe ([personal profile] spikedluv) wrote2025-11-22 07:14 am

The Day in Spikedluv (Friday, Nov 21)

I had a pedicure this morning; I chose another deep red polish. I also hit Walmart and CVS while I was downtown, both for mom.

I did a load of laundry, hand-washed dishes, went for a couple walks with Pip and the dogs, cut up chicken for the dogs' meals, and scooped kitty litter. We went out for supper so I didn’t have to cook! \o/

(The plan was to try the buffet at a new-ish local place, and we both ended up ordering off the menu. Though Pip is determined we’ll do the buffet next time. We both got the cheeseburger, and by the time I got home the roof of my mouth felt like I had sores on it, a sure sign I’ve ingested garlic. I didn’t taste it, but I figured the burger must’ve been seasoned with garlic, and later Pip confirmed because he’d had a ‘side-effect’, too. Which means I’ll be rinsing my mouth with salt water for a couple of days.)

But I did make a pumpkin pie! (My s-i-l asked me to make a GF dessert for Thanksgiving, and pumpkin pie is the first thing I thought of, but Pip’s other sister is making a pumpkin pie. I have to think of something else, but since I was still in the mood for a pumpkin pie, I made one just for us.)

I read more fanfic and watched some HGTV programs. Zoo North Carolina was my background show.

Temps started out at 32.4(F) and reached 49.7. It was overcast all day.


Mom Update:

Mom sounded good when I talked to her. Treatment was same old-same old, food settled fine, and she was watching Mama’s family when I called. *g*
Smart Bitches, Trashy BooksSmart Bitches, Trashy Books ([syndicated profile] smartbitches_feed) wrote2025-11-22 08:00 am

Whatcha Reading? November 2025, Part Two

Posted by Amanda

The woman in yellow coat jeans and boots sitting under the maple tree with a red book and cup of coffee or tea in fall city park on a warm day. Autumn golden leaves. Reading concept. Close up.November is quickly coming to a close. Here’s what we’re reading right now:

Elyse: I’m reading Christmas Fling by Lindsay Kelk. ( A | BN | K | AB )

Sarah: I have been reading The Hearth Witch’s Guide to Magic & Murder by Kiri Callaghan which is part murder mystery, part family drama, part fantasy quest – there’s been skulking in graveyards, magical tea, weird as murders, and fae cats. It’s got everything!

Alas, my TBR grows longer because as I record the Holiday Wishes episodes, my TBR gets more and more robust. What a terrible problem to have!

Shana: I was gifted several early 2000s large print Harlequins from a library book sale. I just read the first, Taming the Notorious Sicilian by Michelle Smart. ( A | BN | K | AB )

A blond man in a charcoal gray suit sitting down. Leaning over him is a brunette in a burgundy dress with a plunging neckline and drop diamond earrings.

Sarah: Okay hang on – who does that cover photo look like? It’s like part Tom Holland with the nose and jaw of…

Sexy Squidward?

Shana: 1990s Chris O’Donnell?

The Hearth Witch’s Guide to Magic and Murder
A | BN | K | AB
It’s a mafia romance with a pediatrician heroine with a strong Not-Like-Other-Girls vibe. Looking at the cover, I don’t think it’s obvious which one of them is the notorious Sicilian though.

Sarah: YES 90s O’Donnell is very right.

Wait, the pediatrician is in the mob? Is this like those alien nanny books where the aliens need child care? The mafia needs a pediatrician?

OH HE is in the mafia. WOW I was like, dang, a heroine who is a mobbed up doctor? That’s new! LOLOL @ ME.

Shana: I would have enjoyed a mafia pediatrician MUCH MORE than one who kept trying to convince the mafia don to just call the police for help. Police love helping out organized criminals, you know.

Sarah: Oh sure all the time, yeah.

Amanda: I’m reading Done and Dusted by Lyla Sage, the first book since using my new TBR game board. I really like the characters and wowee the sex scenes are hot. However, part of the central conflict is the whole “best friend’s younger sister” which isn’t my bag at all. While the main characters talk about it and the heroine isn’t as hung up on the issue as the hero (and thinks the brother in questions is a bit of a nosy jackass), it does play a large role in their relationship.

Done and Dusted
A | BN | K | AB
Sarah: I’ve said before this is a conflict that always baffles me. In some situations, where the best friend sees the siblings’ family as their family, and doesn’t want to potentially compromise that, I get it. That seems like emotional security. But most of the time, I’m thinking, if you don’t want your best friend dating your sibling, wtf kind of friends do you have, and what kind of person are you?

Amanda: I think it’s more of the brother is a judgmental asshole and has always been overprotective. Like it’s clear he also thinks his sister’s BFF is a bad influence/troublemaker. And the hero is pretty upfront that “I like you and I don’t want this to be a secret,” but the heroine is working through some bigger things right now (coming back home after a traumatic injury on the barrel racing circuit). The brother has a future romance with the BFF, so I’m curious if his personality will be redeemed at some point.

I would LOVE if this sort of conflict is resolved with them telling the brother and him being like “oh cool, I love both of you and am happy for you both” given that there is still the injury part of the storyline to work through. But we’ll see!

Whatcha reading right now? Let us know in the comments!

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 11:01 pm

I said it before, and I’ll say it again: There’s a reason I can’t seem to ever fin

I said it before, and I’ll say it again: There’s a reason I can’t seem to ever find my keys anymore.

My entire brain is just all the shit I had to learn to keep myself alive, and when someone mentions something offhandedly, my brain spits out a fact like a weird mast cell dysfunction information pez dispenser.

It happened in my Discord when someone mentioned they’d started reacting to their water filter, and I asked what kind they had switched to. Before they’d even finished typing all the ingredients, I was like, “Potassium chloride is a potential histamine liberator.”

It’s just all hard-wired in there.

What’s my birthdate? Fucked if I know anymore (checked my calendar, it’s March 13th). But chances are you can ask me something really complex and I’ll have a medical journal on speed dial for that.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 10:46 pm

I’m sorry you’re going through this; it really is incredibly daunting knowing where to s

literature-nerd:

thebibliosphere:

caveate:

thebibliosphere:

I’d been saving up for one of those portable ninja air fryers for a while, thinking it might help me have better access to safe food when we have to travel/spend time with family over the holidays. (The risk of cross contamination when sharing oven spaces/stovetops is just too high when you have an anaphylactic reaction to gluten so I just often… don’t get to eat for several hours.)

The fact that our oven is broken right now is just serendipitous.

Anyway. This might be the best $150 I’ve ever spent. That chicken was done before I had time to finish doing the dishes to eat it off of.

And the faster cook time means it’s lower in histamine and the texture is like, actually good??? Like what???? I can bring fresh food to my MIL’s, keep it separate from everyone else in the kitchen and just commandeer a wall socket for 20 minutes and have a whole ass meal with protein and vegetables???? I can eat safely at other people’s houses again???!?

I am having too many emotions for an air fryer but like… I never get to eat with other people anymore. I honestly might be about to cry.

“faster cook time means it’s lower in histamine”

Wait.

The FUCK?

Wait, is that why slow cooked meats always make me react and burgers or 20 min oven baked chicken breast doesn’t?

Holy fucking shit. This article focuses on South Korean foods, but it shows what happens with some foods.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5705351/
Currently deep in the weeds looking for more science articles about this. This could be a massive diet changer for me, for the better!

Anything that involves slow cooking or fermentation can raise histamine levels enough to be a problem for people with histamine issues. It’s why so many “healthy” foods seem to cause problems for us and why some people need to be a whole lot less shitty about some people saying “fast food” is better for them. (tbh they need to be less shitty about what people choose to put in their bodies full stop.)

Bone broth, for example, makes me extremely ill. As does yoghurt and a bunch of other stuff.

Also, be mindful of leftovers. Freeze any leftovers within 2 hours of cooking to prevent further histamine build-up. The longer cooked foods (especially meat) sit in the refrigerator, the more histamine develops.

Beef is also inherently higher in histamine than other meats, such as lamb or poultry, because it’s aged for a minimum of 2 weeks to develop flavor.

And just to clarify again, before anyone rolls their eyes at any of this: histamine is not bad. It is, in fact, incredibly beneficial and necessary for immune system regulation, wound healing, and, yeah, developing the flavor of many nutritionally dense and flavorful foods.

This is also why MSG affects some people poorly. It’s not unhealthy, it’s just a histamine liberator, and some people can struggle with that–but those same people will also generally struggle with aged cheeses and tomatoes, and other foods where MSG naturally occurs.

It’s just us folks with some form of mast cell dysfunction/histamine processing issues who need to be mindful of it. It’s us. Not the foods.

If I might humbly ask a few questions of your expertise, I am attempting to navigate my apparent histamine sensitivities and it’s very daunting and I am confuse.

To be fair I asked for doctor supervision and I got told “science just isn’t there yet with these ‘sensitivities’ ” and “start with the top 8 most common allergens. Only do one at a time for two weeks each” and that was kinda it from that allergist?

I’ve been attempting to figure it out alone and even found the John Hopkins list of high histamine foods and it’s just so fucking long 🙃🙃🙃 and yes says things like “leftovers bad” and I’m just so much more lost and intimidated by it all.


I have to recognize my privilege, I am pretty certain that I am not in “can only eat 20 things” (much less 2! 😨😨😨) territory but like I already lost gluten. And oats because my body thinks they are gluten. Or they’re super cross contaminated?? Idunno. I get dermatitis herptaformis and I reacted to certified gluten free tortillas recently that were made with “modified food starch” which can apparently be made from wheat but the act of processing it makes it no longer gluteny according to the FDA standards? My body disagreed with that ruling?? 🙃🙃🙃 and gluten is in literally everything forever.


You also have the brain things similar to me. The fucking ADHD or whatever that also makes food hard. And fatigue. How cook fresh all the time when fatigue??? Slow cooker is my friend 😭😭😭 slow cooker is baaaad??? How do easy food? How do ANY food given the fact that almost every fresh veggie and fruit in my world is on the high histamine list?????

I’m sorry you’re going through this; it really is incredibly daunting knowing where to start

Unfortunately, your allergist is right, and this is very much a trial-and-error kinda thing. The way it should be done (and not the way I was told to do it, which is why I have so much more damage now than I should) is to pick one food at a time and eliminate it.

Personally, I don’t think 2 weeks is enough. I would eliminate a chosen food for a month and see how you feel at the end of each month–especially if you have a menstrual cycle because the onset of menstruation and ovulation can also raise histamine sensitivity due to the fluctuations in estrogen, so sometimes you may find you can eat some foods fine at one time of the month, and not the other.

So, here’s what you do. (Going to put this under a cut because of length)

Keep a detailed food diary.

Before you eliminate anything, start a detailed food diary of what you do eat and any symptoms that might occur. I always start on the first of the month because I have a physical calendar to flip over, as well as alerts on my phone to remind me to do it and get past the ADHD gremlins.

So, for one whole month, keep a daily food diary with space to document symptoms, whether physical, emotional, or mental.

After that month, you have an established baseline.

Now, it’s time to pick a food to eliminate for the next month. Look back at your food diary and look at Bad Symptom days. What did you eat that day or in the days prior, because histamine often builds up?

Say… you had strawberries three days in a row, and on the third/fourth day, your body pitched a fit. That’s a high-histamine food, and you ingested it multiple times in a row. Maybe once a week is fine, but potentially not every day.

So, you take your food diary and you do the same thing as before, but this time you make sure there are no strawberries in anything you eat. Continue documenting symptoms, and then, at the end of the month, compare them to your baseline.

Did removing the potential trigger food from your diet affect your symptoms?

No effect: Put it back in.

Yes, I felt better: Eliminate from your diet.

Hard to tell: Try again later.

Next month, pick another food you suspect might be an issue. Rinse and repeat.

I know this sounds impossible, but if you suspect you have histamine issues, this needs to become a priority for you, as once the cat is out of the bag, it becomes increasingly challenging to get mast cells back under control. This is where you need to put your time and energy for now, but I want you to know that the documenting process isn’t forever, and you do find ways to make it work.

The goal of the low histamine diet isn’t to whittle your foods down to the bare minimum; it’s to find the worst offenders and hope that removing them from your diet makes your ability to tolerate other things easier. We’re trying to increase your histamine tolerance window by removing the battering ram that’s hitting it. Does that make sense?

As for how to make things easier? I am now fully on team air fryer. I’m considering buying the bigger one at some point so I can fit an entire meal into it at once without needing to switch the glass bowls the Ninja thing came with, so I can make large batches of my safe foods, then freeze them.

Which is another thing that will make all this easier. Meal prep as much as you can. I normally make enough of my safe foods to last 1-2 weeks and throw them in my freezer so I can thaw/reheat them and preserve my mental and physical energy between meal prep as much as possible.

Also, be aware of gluten; it can stick to things like Teflon, silicone, wood, cast iron, and plastic, so if you are still having gluten problems despite eliminating gluten from your diet, it could be your cookware/chopping boards/storage containers.

We had to replace everything in our kitchen that wasn’t glass or stainless steel when I got my diagnosis. It was heartbreaking, but it needed to be done. Also, replace your toaster if you have one. Or have a dedicated gluten-free toaster.

Any and all appliances you now buy are gluten-free, and you get my permission to murder anyone who puts gluten in them.

I know this is long, but I hope some of it was helpful. Good luck. I wish you well in your health journey.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 09:48 pm

The SIGHI group, which is still the most up-to-date and trusted resource online for the low…

arcticfritillary:

thebibliosphere:

caveate:

thebibliosphere:

I’d been saving up for one of those portable ninja air fryers for a while, thinking it might help me have better access to safe food when we have to travel/spend time with family over the holidays. (The risk of cross contamination when sharing oven spaces/stovetops is just too high when you have an anaphylactic reaction to gluten so I just often… don’t get to eat for several hours.)

The fact that our oven is broken right now is just serendipitous.

Anyway. This might be the best $150 I’ve ever spent. That chicken was done before I had time to finish doing the dishes to eat it off of.

And the faster cook time means it’s lower in histamine and the texture is like, actually good??? Like what???? I can bring fresh food to my MIL’s, keep it separate from everyone else in the kitchen and just commandeer a wall socket for 20 minutes and have a whole ass meal with protein and vegetables???? I can eat safely at other people’s houses again???!?

I am having too many emotions for an air fryer but like… I never get to eat with other people anymore. I honestly might be about to cry.

“faster cook time means it’s lower in histamine”

Wait.

The FUCK?

Wait, is that why slow cooked meats always make me react and burgers or 20 min oven baked chicken breast doesn’t?

Holy fucking shit. This article focuses on South Korean foods, but it shows what happens with some foods.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5705351/
Currently deep in the weeds looking for more science articles about this. This could be a massive diet changer for me, for the better!

Anything that involves slow cooking or fermentation can raise histamine levels enough to be a problem for people with histamine issues. It’s why so many “healthy” foods seem to cause problems for us and why some people need to be a whole lot less shitty about some people saying “fast food” is better for them. (tbh they need to be less shitty about what people choose to put in their bodies full stop.)

Bone broth, for example, makes me extremely ill. As does yoghurt and a bunch of other stuff.

Also, be mindful of leftovers. Freeze any leftovers within 2 hours of cooking to prevent further histamine build-up. The longer cooked foods (especially meat) sit in the refrigerator, the more histamine develops.

Beef is also inherently higher in histamine than other meats, such as lamb or poultry, because it’s aged for a minimum of 2 weeks to develop flavor.

And just to clarify again, before anyone rolls their eyes at any of this: histamine is not bad. It is, in fact, incredibly beneficial and necessary for immune system regulation, wound healing, and, yeah, developing the flavor of many nutritionally dense and flavorful foods.

This is also why MSG affects some people poorly. It’s not unhealthy, it’s just a histamine liberator, and some people can struggle with that–but those same people will also generally struggle with aged cheeses and tomatoes, and other foods where MSG naturally occurs.

It’s just us folks with some form of mast cell dysfunction/histamine processing issues who need to be mindful of it. It’s us. Not the foods.

That is the first time I have heard about MSG being a histamine liberator, but now my mother’s newfound sensitivity to both MSG and histamines (COVID complications) makes sense.

The SIGHI group, which is still the most up-to-date and trusted resource online for the low histamine elimination diet (I guess it’s a big enough problem in Switzerland that this list was a thing long before anywhere else, which is why so many other countires use this list. They keep it updated too, as needed) lists MSG as a level 2 risk as well as noting it as a histamine liberator, making it highly incompatible for anyone trying to eliminate higher histamine foods from their diet.

Your mother may find going through the list helpful in getting back to a stable baseline. (Although I stress, the low histamine diet is not sustainable long term. The goal is to find the worst triggers and eliminate them, and then increase your variety of foods as much as possible for the best possible nutritional health.)

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 09:33 pm

Sorry for the bunch of spam reblogs that just happened (which I think I’ve deleted)

Sorry for the bunch of spam reblogs that just happened (which I think I’ve deleted)

Holly Mop got very interested in my phone. Chaos ensued.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 09:16 pm

Anything that involves slow cooking or fermentation can raise histamine levels enough to be a&hellip

caveate:

thebibliosphere:

I’d been saving up for one of those portable ninja air fryers for a while, thinking it might help me have better access to safe food when we have to travel/spend time with family over the holidays. (The risk of cross contamination when sharing oven spaces/stovetops is just too high when you have an anaphylactic reaction to gluten so I just often… don’t get to eat for several hours.)

The fact that our oven is broken right now is just serendipitous.

Anyway. This might be the best $150 I’ve ever spent. That chicken was done before I had time to finish doing the dishes to eat it off of.

And the faster cook time means it’s lower in histamine and the texture is like, actually good??? Like what???? I can bring fresh food to my MIL’s, keep it separate from everyone else in the kitchen and just commandeer a wall socket for 20 minutes and have a whole ass meal with protein and vegetables???? I can eat safely at other people’s houses again???!?

I am having too many emotions for an air fryer but like… I never get to eat with other people anymore. I honestly might be about to cry.

“faster cook time means it’s lower in histamine”

Wait.

The FUCK?

Wait, is that why slow cooked meats always make me react and burgers or 20 min oven baked chicken breast doesn’t?

Holy fucking shit. This article focuses on South Korean foods, but it shows what happens with some foods.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5705351/
Currently deep in the weeds looking for more science articles about this. This could be a massive diet changer for me, for the better!

Anything that involves slow cooking or fermentation can raise histamine levels enough to be a problem for people with histamine issues. It’s why so many “healthy” foods seem to cause problems for us and why some people need to be a whole lot less shitty about some people saying “fast food” is better for them. (tbh they need to be less shitty about what people choose to put in their bodies full stop.)

Bone broth, for example, makes me extremely ill. As does yoghurt and a bunch of other stuff.

Also, be mindful of leftovers. Freeze any leftovers within 2 hours of cooking to prevent further histamine build-up. The longer cooked foods (especially meat) sit in the refrigerator, the more histamine develops.

Beef is also inherently higher in histamine than other meats, such as lamb or poultry, because it’s aged for a minimum of 2 weeks to develop flavor.

And just to clarify again, before anyone rolls their eyes at any of this: histamine is not bad. It is, in fact, incredibly beneficial and necessary for immune system regulation, wound healing, and, yeah, developing the flavor of many nutritionally dense and flavorful foods.

This is also why MSG affects some people poorly. It’s not unhealthy, it’s just a histamine liberator, and some people can struggle with that–but those same people will also generally struggle with aged cheeses and tomatoes, and other foods where MSG naturally occurs.

It’s just us folks with some form of mast cell dysfunction/histamine processing issues who need to be mindful of it. It’s us. Not the foods.

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ailelie ([personal profile] ailelie) wrote2025-11-22 12:08 am

Dishes

I hate dishes. Here is my current system for doing them nightly:
1. I check off each day of the week on a whiteboard by my fridge.
2. When I complete a week,I get to add +1 session to my BeeMinder (basically giving myself a skip day for daily writing).
3. When I complete a week, I also color in a square on a four-part square below my tracker. When I completely black out the square, I get to add +1 session to my BeeMinder (for a total of +5 over the course of completing the square).
4. When doing dishes, I wear gloves, use spray soap, and have a comfy pad to stand on. Comfort is key! Plus, no soft nails, touching food, or wet hands.
5. I only have to do the dishes for 15 minutes max per night. I have a push light over my sink that turns off after 15 minutes if I don't turn it off manually. This illuminates the sink and keeps track of time in a way that requires zero effort from me.
6. If I fall asleep by accident, it counts as long as I do at least 1 dish or if I do them when I wake up.
7. If I miss a day, I restart the week from the next day onward. No waiting for the week to start again. (Right now, my week starts on a Friday).
8. I don't have to dry and put the dishes away the same night I wash them.

Do you see all the layers here? Minimizing suckage, adding a reward, removing rules. For the reward, I have one for the week, but also one for multiple weeks that encourages sustaining my efforts. The reward doesn't cost me money or time. And since I can just do the same reward each time, it doesn't require effort to think up. The 15 minute rule helps when I'm feeling overwhelmed by my dishes. On bad days, even just a few feels too many. If it is only 15 minutes max, though, I can manage that (at least I've been able to so far). If I do dishes and then cook more, I don't have to do them again. And tracking the days on my fridge means I've a passive reminder to do them. Plus, it offloads having to remember having done them. The less I have to think about my dishes, the better.

Will this system stick? I don't know. It is really a collection of other things I've tried previously united into a single system. I hope it lasts.

It is weird -- hating dishes feels like part of me. Having dirty dishes is strangely affirming, even as they stress me out and hurt me financially and health-wise (since I end up ordering in instead of cooking). So finding a way to get them done regularly feels almost like turning my back on myself. Except... I don't actually want the sink full of dirty dishes. I actually do want to be better about them. Improvement shouldn't feel like loss, except it does a bit.

I'm also getting way ahead of myself. This has only been in place for two weeks and a day. Who knows? Maybe this time next month I'll be moaning about another monster pile of dishes to slay.
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Stephanie ([personal profile] flareonfury) wrote in [community profile] fandom_icons2025-11-21 11:46 pm

20+ Vampire Women for vampiremedia 20in20 challenge

These icons were made for the first [community profile] vampiremedia 20in20 challenge. The theme is women. So below are 20 icons for the challenge plus all the extras I made.

[01] Aleera, Marishka & Verona (Van Helsing)
[02] Mavis Dracula (Hotel Transylvania)
[02] Barbara Gordon (DC vs Vampires)
[05] Diana (DC vs Vampires)
[01] Raven (DC vs Vampires)
[01] Rose (Vampire Academy books)
[06] Jubilee Lee (X-Men)
[03] Selene (Underworld)
[06] Lily Munster (The Munsters 2022)
[02] Caroline Forbes (The Vampire Diaries)
[03] Elena Gilbert (The Vampire Diaries)
[01] Katerina Petrova (The Vampire Diaries)
[01] Rebekah Mikaelson (The Vampire Diaries) 
[07] Hope Mikaelson (The Legacies)
[09] Lizzie Saltzman (The Legacies)

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A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 07:58 pm

I’d been saving up for one of those portable ninja air fryers for a while, thinking it might h

I’d been saving up for one of those portable ninja air fryers for a while, thinking it might help me have better access to safe food when we have to travel/spend time with family over the holidays. (The risk of cross contamination when sharing oven spaces/stovetops is just too high when you have an anaphylactic reaction to gluten so I just often… don’t get to eat for several hours.)

The fact that our oven is broken right now is just serendipitous.

Anyway. This might be the best $150 I’ve ever spent. That chicken was done before I had time to finish doing the dishes to eat it off of.

And the faster cook time means it’s lower in histamine and the texture is like, actually good??? Like what???? I can bring fresh food to my MIL’s, keep it separate from everyone else in the kitchen and just commandeer a wall socket for 20 minutes and have a whole ass meal with protein and vegetables???? I can eat safely at other people’s houses again???!?

I am having too many emotions for an air fryer but like… I never get to eat with other people anymore. I honestly might be about to cry.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 07:02 pm

We just plain do not have the money for that kind of thing.

rainycat2:

thebibliosphere:

ostensible-adult:

thebibliosphere:

bibs-blocksberg:

thebibliosphere:

It’s way more expensive than a tank (and probably more expensive to run), but we could get a tankless electric water heater that runs on 120 voltage. And right now I’m eyeing it just to reduce the gas use in our house and also reduce the number of things in our basement that have the potential to leak water.

Hm. I need to google some things. (Or if anyone has any input, I’d welcome that too.)

Can you get several small water heaters, to install where needed? At my office we have small ones directly under the sink, like this:


Afaik they plug into a regular socket, might that be easier on your installations?

I’d never seen those before. That’s interesting. I don’t think it would work for our current bathroom (which we just renovated in 2022) but I’m going to keep that in mind for when we are forced to redo the downstairs bathroom.

I’d discourage replacing your gas heater with a 120V tankless electric one. Unless you take cold showers, you’re going to need a bare minimum of 10kW, and even that is only enough for somewhere around 90F showers. This requires new electrical work, and you may as well use a 240V tankless heater at that point.

If you can swing the purchase price, I’d recommend a heat-pump water heater. (Here are some from Home Depot) Some of them can be plugged into an ordinary outlet. They do have the disadvantage of cooling whatever area you place them in, but assuming you’re using gas or a heat pump for heating, you should still be saving energy (and thus money) over a tankless or traditional electric water heater.

The idea of going electric instead of gas is because we keep having multiple gas leaks in this house despite regular maintenance and they’re quoting us 12k to redo all the lines. I’m stuck with the gas furnace, but I’d happily yeet the gas water heater if it would mean having one less gas appliance in a house that keeps trying to combust.

If you end up going electric, are you considering adding solar panels as well? (If it’s an option— they’re rather pricey but my sister had some installed and she said it paid for itself after a year, so…)

We just plain do not have the money for that kind of thing.

Like in an ideal world, sure. But we’re having to take out a massive loan with an atrocious APR to cover this work. Hell, we still haven’t paid off the furnace from this year when that sucker started leaking gas and we had to replace it asap with a new gas one because the electric heat pump one would have required us to take a loan out that was the same length of time as our remaining mortgage.

And while Tumblr very kindly helped me reach the down payment amount to make the loan payments manageable, we have no money for any of this.

It’s all just debt.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 06:51 pm

The idea of going electric instead of gas is because we keep having multiple gas leaks in this house

ostensible-adult:

thebibliosphere:

bibs-blocksberg:

thebibliosphere:

It’s way more expensive than a tank (and probably more expensive to run), but we could get a tankless electric water heater that runs on 120 voltage. And right now I’m eyeing it just to reduce the gas use in our house and also reduce the number of things in our basement that have the potential to leak water.

Hm. I need to google some things. (Or if anyone has any input, I’d welcome that too.)

Can you get several small water heaters, to install where needed? At my office we have small ones directly under the sink, like this:


Afaik they plug into a regular socket, might that be easier on your installations?

I’d never seen those before. That’s interesting. I don’t think it would work for our current bathroom (which we just renovated in 2022) but I’m going to keep that in mind for when we are forced to redo the downstairs bathroom.

I’d discourage replacing your gas heater with a 120V tankless electric one. Unless you take cold showers, you’re going to need a bare minimum of 10kW, and even that is only enough for somewhere around 90F showers. This requires new electrical work, and you may as well use a 240V tankless heater at that point.

If you can swing the purchase price, I’d recommend a heat-pump water heater. (Here are some from Home Depot) Some of them can be plugged into an ordinary outlet. They do have the disadvantage of cooling whatever area you place them in, but assuming you’re using gas or a heat pump for heating, you should still be saving energy (and thus money) over a tankless or traditional electric water heater.

The idea of going electric instead of gas is because we keep having multiple gas leaks in this house despite regular maintenance and they’re quoting us 12k to redo all the lines. I’m stuck with the gas furnace, but I’d happily yeet the gas water heater if it would mean having one less gas appliance in a house that keeps trying to combust.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 06:22 pm

^^^ also this.

fridaynightgrimmdark:

thebibliosphere:

lockedinabookstore:

thebibliosphere:

thebibliosphere:

thebibliosphere:

So they quoted us another twelve grand to replace the gas lines in the basement, including water heater.

Except most of the line that needs to be replaced is linked to the water heater so I just texted the guy back like, “hey, so… what if we got an electric water heater instead, what would the quote for that be?”

He sent me back a thumbs up emoji lol.

He texted back asking for pictures of my electrical box because I will ‘probably need a whole new box installed.’

Texted him all the brand new work we had done in 2021 including the brand new box that has two things hooked up to it, and he replied that we definitely didn’t have room for another appliance on it.

So. Texting Tony who do all the work in 2021 to see if he can give us a second opinion on that.

Like this is not my first hell house renovation rodeo, sir. I have other people I can call before you start telling me I need to redo all my electric again.

Tony’s wife picked up like, “oh hey it’s you two! What’s wrong?” 😭

He can’t get here until possibly mid December but if we has any spare time he’s going to drop in and double check the panels to see if we have room or not. Which is fine. We can’t afford to start any of this until some time next year. But, yeah. Second opinion time👍

Do you have any tips for other people that have to get a lot done on their homes?

Re your tags: for the love of god prioritize remedying any water damage. It spreads so easily and causes so much damage not just to your house but also potentially to your health.

Unless anything else is a hazard like gas or electric, fix the water damage. Aesthetics can wait. The house has waited this long, it can wait a little longer to look pretty.

If youre wiring is old enough its covered in fabric, not rubber. That means it will fray more easily and could catch fire if its opd and beat up enough. When you get it replaced, make sure they take it all at once and make sure they dont overload the damn things. My old house caught fire when the contractor who bought it from us overloaded the old fabric wires after replacing half of them, and then running electricity at capacity from the new wires into what was left from the old ones.


My mom routinely tore the drywall away from old fabric wires in that place because we could tell when they’d short, the room would go dark and the outlets would smoke. Read up on electrical fires and dont be afraid to call the fire department out of youre worried about it. They’d much rather come out and tell you that one of your walls needs electric help than put your whole damn house out.

^^^ also this.

As someone who has had the fire dept out multiple times, sometimes for false alarms (though usually not) they are ALWAYS glad to check things for you and are just happy you’re safe.

Hell, the steam from our bathroom set off our smoke detector that’s wired to the security system that calls emergency services for us if we don’t respond in X amount of time, and I was mortified. We kept apologizing and the responder who came in to check on the house after they killed the sirens was just like, “folks, any call we come away from where you’re alive is a good one.”

They’ve been out here for carbon monoxide, gas leaks, overheating electrics and the other time I set the smoke alarm off by burning a pot of caramel. They always say the same: better safe than dead.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 06:13 pm

Holly Mop is genuinely so funny. @mothman-etd will be distracted doing something on the computer, ie

Holly Mop is genuinely so funny. @mothman-etd will be distracted doing something on the computer, ie not giving her all of his attention, and she’ll really come prancing through to the living room, tossing her head around and chuffing like a grumpy train to bark at me until I go get him for her.

10lb dog really said, “I’m going to tell your manager” lol

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 06:01 pm

Re your tags: for the love of god prioritize remedying any water damage. It spreads so easily and&he

lockedinabookstore:

thebibliosphere:

thebibliosphere:

thebibliosphere:

So they quoted us another twelve grand to replace the gas lines in the basement, including water heater.

Except most of the line that needs to be replaced is linked to the water heater so I just texted the guy back like, “hey, so… what if we got an electric water heater instead, what would the quote for that be?”

He sent me back a thumbs up emoji lol.

He texted back asking for pictures of my electrical box because I will ‘probably need a whole new box installed.’

Texted him all the brand new work we had done in 2021 including the brand new box that has two things hooked up to it, and he replied that we definitely didn’t have room for another appliance on it.

So. Texting Tony who do all the work in 2021 to see if he can give us a second opinion on that.

Like this is not my first hell house renovation rodeo, sir. I have other people I can call before you start telling me I need to redo all my electric again.

Tony’s wife picked up like, “oh hey it’s you two! What’s wrong?” 😭

He can’t get here until possibly mid December but if we has any spare time he’s going to drop in and double check the panels to see if we have room or not. Which is fine. We can’t afford to start any of this until some time next year. But, yeah. Second opinion time👍

Do you have any tips for other people that have to get a lot done on their homes?

Re your tags: for the love of god prioritize remedying any water damage. It spreads so easily and causes so much damage not just to your house but also potentially to your health.

Unless anything else is a hazard like gas or electric, fix the water damage. Aesthetics can wait. The house has waited this long, it can wait a little longer to look pretty.

A Humble Peddler of Weres ([syndicated profile] thebibliosphere_feed) wrote2025-11-21 05:59 pm

That was the electrician before him who just ghosted us. He couldn’t handle the house.

boss-of-armadildos:

thebibliosphere:

thebibliosphere:

So they quoted us another twelve grand to replace the gas lines in the basement, including water heater.

Except most of the line that needs to be replaced is linked to the water heater so I just texted the guy back like, “hey, so… what if we got an electric water heater instead, what would the quote for that be?”

He sent me back a thumbs up emoji lol.

He texted back asking for pictures of my electrical box because I will ‘probably need a whole new box installed.’

Texted him all the brand new work we had done in 2021 including the brand new box that has two things hooked up to it, and he replied that we definitely didn’t have room for another appliance on it.

So. Texting Tony who do all the work in 2021 to see if he can give us a second opinion on that.

Like this is not my first hell house renovation rodeo, sir. I have other people I can call before you start telling me I need to redo all my electric again.

I thought he didn’t return your calls anymore or something to that effect?

That was the electrician before him who just ghosted us. He couldn’t handle the house.

Tony often takes a while to get back to us if it’s not urgent. But that’s because him, his kid and his 80yo dad are constantly booked for work across the entire metro area and his wife jokes she doesn’t remember what any of them looks like anymore.

Them trying to fit us into his schedule by mid December is because we’re the “crazy kids” who bought the hidden secrets nightmare house and they like us, lol.